Selasa, 10 Mei 2011

Free Sex Among Teens


Author:
Firman Fajar


It hurt to hear the news: 42.3students Cianjur, Indonesia, premarital sex.

So, how can we make the case can be minimized?

Factors that cause deviant behavior can be seen from the internal and external aspects. Ways to minimize free sex among teenagers is based on both these aspects.

The following tips:

1. Teens get busy with positive activities.
Teenagers are busy with positive activities, less likely to think about negative things, including sexual problems.
Examples of positive activities:
- Sports: futsal, basketball, swimming, archery, volleyball, badminton, table tennis, running
- Martial arts: martial arts, karate, taekwondo, kung fu
- Scientific Group of Teenagers
- Journalism: create a newsletter, bulletin board
- Religious activities for teens: study, learn to read the Holy Quran
- Student Organization
- Business: food, watches, cell phone pulses, bags
- Participated in various competitions: Olympic field of study, story telling, calligraphy, caricatures, computers, reading poetry, singing songs, sports, quizzes, speeches
- Scout
- Red Cross Youth or Red Crescent Youth

2. Sprinkle with adolescent spiritual values ​​of faith.
Faith will be a guard for the behavior of adolescents. Profound faith will develop a sense of shame to the contrary. Although no one is lelihat, they believe that God saw their deeds. There is no somewhere else escape the supervision of God.

3. Provide an understanding of the negative impact of free sex.
Knowledge about the negative impact of free sex will prevent teenagers to do so.
Some of the negative impact of free sex is:
- Perpetrators of sex will get a negative stamp of the society, as people who are not immoral
- Self and family will get embarrassed
- For young women who do, there is likely to be pregnant, which makes them ashamed if known by the community

4. Control the mass media that they witnessed.
Remind teenagers to stay away from the mass media featuring pornography. Watching a scene will stimulate sexual desire porn teen, who fear it would encourage them to do free sex.
Media who need to look out for is the internet. Through the Internet, teens can easily access a variety of impressions pornography. Pornography sites on the Internet to reach 492 million.
Various parties have sought the protection against porn sites, but of course it was not enough. While most porn sites are blocked, yet still a lot. Therefore, control activities become very important.

5. Note the friends they hang out.
Remind adolescents to choose friends who bring benefits to them, not their friends who will plunge into the valley of the disaster. Encourage your teen to choose friends who enjoy doing a variety of positive activities.
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/teenagers-articles/free-sex-among-teens-4748438.html
About the Author
Firman Fajar, S.Sos
Sociology Teacher
Nurul Fikri Integrated Islamic Senior High School
Depok, Jawa Barat, Indonesia

Prevention of Terrorism Acts From Smallest Environment

Author:
Firman Fajar


Indonesia is famous as a country that experience frequent acts of terrorism. Here\'s a list of acts of terrorism that occurred during the period 2000-2009:

August 1, 2000
The bomb exploded in front of the Philippine Ambassador\'s residence in Jakarta. Two people were killed.

13 September 2000
The blast at the Jakarta Stock Exchange building.
Fifteen people died, dozens injured

December 24, 2000
The series of attacks on churches in Jakarta and other cities. Killing 17 people. More than 100 people were injured

October 12, 2002
Known as the Bali bombings, the action against a club in Kuta, Bali, killing 202 people dead, mostly foreign tourists. 88 of them Australians. Hundreds of people were injured.

December 5, 2002
Bomb blast at McDonald\'s restaurant in Makassar, Sulawesi.
Three people were killed.

August 5, 2003
The first bomb attack on the JW Marriott hotel in Jakarta.
Twelve people killed, including a Dutch citizen.
More than 150 people injured.

January 10, 2004
The bomb exploded at the location of karaoke, Cafe Sampodo in Palopo, Sulawesi. Four people died

September 9, 2004
A magnitude of 1 ton car bomb exploded in front of Australian Embassy, ​​Jakarta. Killed 10 Indonesian citizens. More than a hundred people were injured

13 November 2004
Explosion near police station Kendari, Sulawesi.
Five people were killed, four people were injured.

May 28, 2005
Bomb in Tentena market, Sulawesi
Killed 22 people and caused 90 injuries

December 31, 2005
The bomb exploded at a market Palu, Sulawesi.
Eight people were killed and at least 48 others injured

October 1, 2005
Suicide bomb attacks in two locations Jimbaran and Kuta, Bali
20 people were killed and 129 others injured

July 17, 2009
JW Marriott Hotel bomb attack again targeted a row, following the bomb explosion at the Ritz-Carlton, Jakarta. Until now known, 9 people died and 42 injured.

Because so many terrorist acts in Indonesia, most countries claim to Indonesia as a hotbed of terrorists. Of course, the people of Indonesia did not accept the claim. Since the first of Indonesia known as a friendly nation and uphold tolerance among different religious groups. However, in reality, during the period 2000-2009, acts of terrorism so much, it\'s hard to deny the claim. What matters now is how the people of Indonesia to prevent terrorist acts do not happen again in Indonesia.

The terrorists are looking for a quiet place to design activities. A quiet area and its citizens do not much care for others is a great place for terrorists to move.

Therefore, one effective way to prevent acts of terrorism is to optimize control of the population by the chairman of Neighborhood.

If every head of Neighborhood residents in the area know, the terrorists would not dare do the work in Indonesia. There will be no terrorists who can move, because every inch of the territory of Indonesia is always monitored.

In addition, of course the role of society is desirable. Inter neighbors should pay attention to each other. So, if there is any suspicious activity, can be directly detected.
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/politics-articles/prevention-of-terrorism-acts-from-smallest-environment-4747204.html
About the Author
Firman Fajar, S.Sos
Sociology Teacher
Nurul Fikri Integrated Islamic Senior High School
Depok, Jawa Barat, Indonesia